If you've never been to a house concert, you're missing something truly exceptional. No one need have been to lots of concerts in their life to presume that there's not much comparison between the typical concert venue and the intimate environment of someone's living room.
I've been to some spontaneous living room concerts and a couple of others where I didn't know the artist but they weren't promoted; I just heard about it from a friend and went. But I've never hosted my own house concert.
Until October 24, 2009.
The amazing Seth Horan performed in our home in Las Vegas Nevada and I can tell you without hesitation that it was one of the best musical experiences of our lives. Just for a bit of background about us: in our house, music reigns supreme. My husband and I are both musicians, consider our 7,000+ CD collection members of the family, and we've seen everyone from the Beatles to the Beach Boys, Elvis Presley to Elvis Costello, the Grateful Dead to Radiohead, the Four Tops to ZZ-Top, and Frank Sinatra to Ani DiFranco. With a little Led Zeppelin and Nine Inch Nails thrown in for good measure.
The thing about the house concert that can't be duplicated in a larger venue is the intimacy that is created. It's a deep intimacy, not exactly like sex, but perhaps a bit like undressing your beloved for the first time. The experience is deeply sensual in that all the senses are heightened and the connection between the artist and the audience is profound. From the very moment that I signed on to be a host, I had a keen sense of anticipation about the event that ultimately exploded into the realization that this thing turned out even better than anything I had expected.
Still with me?
In our youth we camped out overnight for concert tickets, caravanned in old trucks to venues across state lines, sat in nosebleed seats, and rocked out in the front row. Every performer was different and every concert was different but they all had one thing in common: the inability to connect with the entire audience. No offense intended. That doesn't mean they weren't affecting or emotional: it just means that they didn't connect on a global level. But with scores of thousands of people in the audience, how could they?
With 20 people packed into your living room, it's a whole nother story. At our house, the air was both relaxed and electric. People were charged up. There were moments when we could feel the rush of air between Seth's fingers as he played, see the changing blush of Seth's face as he moved from song to song, smell the mingling odors of pheromones, wine, and food, and hear absolutely everything. Including the snoring of the dog.
As for taste, yes oh yes, it was swwwweeeeet.
It takes guts for an artist to do a house concert. It makes them vulnerable. We deliberately chose to invite people who had never heard Seth's music before and most of who didn't know each other. We did that to create new fans for Seth (never having a doubt that they would become fans after hearing him play) and to see if the house concert experience would create a sense of intimacy and solidarity between people who didn't know each other.
We were ecstatic to see that it accomplished both objectives. Seth gave an amazing concert that blew every one away. His technical proficiency on the bass, smartly crafted intellectual pop tunes, and humorous way of keeping everyone engaged and involved was mesmerizing. People left with purchased copies of Seth's CDs and phone numbers and email addresses of the person they met sitting next to them. If there is a way to bring about world peace, surely hosting or attending one of Seth's house concert would be a great first step.
I would be remiss if I didn't mention one more thing. I was one of 69 fans who helped produce Seth's latest album titled "Clang and Chime". Being a producer probably made me even more critical of his performance than I would have normally been because I knew where the songs he performed came from and how far they had grown. I was not disappointed. Not one little bit. If you'd like to host a house concert of your own, I'm betting it will be one of the best musical experiences of your life, too.
The experience of hosting a house concert is unlike anything you'll ever do because you get to be witness to both sides of it in a way that none of the others can. Both the audience and artist have an unspoken reverence for what is taking place and a genuine appreciation for one another not just for the music, but for their collective and individual humanity.
For those interested in hosting a house concert of their own I'll be posting a short how-to guide to give you some tips. It's not hard and with just a little bit of preparation, you're going to have an event that you'll be talking about for years to come.
So step up. I hear Seth's got openings in 2010.
Comments from guests after our concert:
- I have to admit having never been to a house concert and not really knowing what I was in for I was under the impression we were on our way to see "Yawnie" and instead I got to see one of the most ELECTRIC performers I have gotten to see play live since I saw the very first U2 concert in Los Angeles =)
- I admit whole heartedly that I was mesmerized by the entire performance ... intelligent lyrics and rock your socks off music!
- On a scale of 1 to 10, I give it an 11.
- Great show and thanks again for hosting this.
- We had a great time!We go to community concerts and shows all the time and have never seen anything as good as this!
- You talked him up pretty good so I was a bit skeptical. Turns out I was right and you were wrong. He was better than you said he was.
- Great show! I had a really rough week and this concert was the perfect thing to make it all go away. Seth was amazing!
- I had no idea what to expect. This exceeded everything I thought it might be like. Good stuff!
- What an absolute rockin out concert and Seth Horan was funky too!
- [Seth} is a great entertainer/musician.... I have to say i was laughing sometimes because he reminded me of Jack Black a little.
- Great concert! We had a great time!
- We had a great time. And drove home listening to Seth's new CD that we bought after the concert and continued the groove all the way home.
- Thanks! I had never heard of Seth before. But I'm sure glad I know who he is now. He was GREAT! Thanks for the invite!!
- !Ole school vibe is back! Great LIVE music provided by Seth Horan, Bassist Extraordinaire!!!!And my personal favorite:"It was an absolutely wonderful evening ... we talked about politics, we talked about community service, we talked about upcoming events and then the music started and all we could talk about was Seth Horan."
That's what music and art does. It makes people forget about all the rest and connect on a soulular level, reminding us that our commonalities are stronger than our differences. Thanks to everyone for coming out and to Seth for giving us a reason to do so.